LOVE GONE WRONG.

A man found murdered in his own house. The suspect is a man who was jealous of the close friendship that this man had with his girlfriend....

We have heard such cases before. Even the Bible talks about a man's jealousy.It is one of the things that leads men to do the unthinkable so woe unto you if a man finds you with his woman. No I am not trying to justify and actually this a plea to the women more that to the men. Know your man very well. If he tells you he is not comfortable with a certain male friend of yours,do not take it lightly;do something about it because the next thing may be a dead corpse of your friend! You can tell a controlling man from the word go.W e all are jealous but others more than some. It feels good for your partner to ask 'who was that you were talking to?' but when they start obsessing about it,eh,you will need to decide if your friend is safer being your friend or not.

Now,this is totally wrong.It is barbaric even but there are some of us with issues that cannot be absorbed by tissues( this must be my best rhyme for all time...lol) Learn to choose your fights.No one is perfect,the whole world knows that but as my friend once told about politicians,you choose the one with the lesser evil. Choose the weaknesses you know you can live with. And please do not cheat yourself that you will change the said person,you won't.Only God and the person themselves can do that.
Ladies,do not be blind while dating.Have both eyes wide opened and notice everything! Once you get married you can become blind.You do not want to spend the rest of your life with shock absorbers ever ready because you now start seeing the true colors,once the whole lovey- dovey business is up.Breaking a relationship is way much easier than a marriage so,be very careful and real with yourself.

Guys,you cannot go roughing every other guy who talks to your woman,even if they hit on her.You heard me right.The same way you find her beautiful is the same way the rest of the world does,get a hold of yourself.Just because the Bible recognizes the danger of a jealous man who finds the wife in bed with another man,the same Bible has a commandment against murder and talks highly about self control. So,your actions will not be justified oh yes,and there is the law,whose hands are apparently very long,not forgetting your conscious.

Trust is not a luxury when it comes to relationships,ok to successful relationship.It is a very necessary ingredient.Remember,if you do not trust your partner,you are simply subscribing to drama every single day of your life and thus end up dying a very pre mature death.You won't keep other people from hitting on your partner and the like.You need to trust your partner enough to know that they love you and only you and they will always do what is right and if ever what is right to them is not you,release them and let them be,you will find yours.Easier said than done,I know but possible.